Let Us Pray – When God Says “no” – Part I

Why does it seem that some prayers get answered while others don’t? Sometimes God’s “no” feels totally unfathomable. In Jeremiah 33:3, God promises to answer when we call on Him, but how do we handle it when His responses may not always align with our expectations?  These are questions that often puzzle us as we strive to apply our own logic to make sense of it, and we sometimes find ourselves grappling with the dilemma that; If God is a loving God, why does He sometimes respond with a “no” to our heartfelt prayers? Join us as Pastor Chris starts to dig deeper into understanding prayer by exploring some of the reasons behind God’s “no” and how we can find peace amidst an unanswered prayer.


  1. Have you ever experienced a time when you felt that God didn’t answer your prayer? How did it make you feel, and how did you respond to that experience?
  2. Reflecting on Jeremiah 33:3, what does it mean to you that God promises to answer when we call on Him? How does this verse challenge or affirm your understanding of prayer?
  3. Why do you think some prayers receive a “yes” or immediate answer, while others seem to go unanswered? How does this challenge our understanding of God’s love and His ways?
  4. In moments of unanswered prayers, what are some common struggles or doubts that can arise in our faith? How can we find peace and maintain trust in God during those times?
  5. The message highlights three possible reasons for God saying “no” to our prayers: having a bigger perspective, a better plan, and a bolder purpose. Which of these reasons resonates with you the most, and why?
  6. Can you think of any personal experiences or examples from the Bible where God’s “no” ultimately brought about greater blessings or revealed a higher purpose? How did those situations shape individuals’ faith and character?
  7. How can we cultivate a posture of trust and surrender in prayer, even when God’s responses don’t align with our desires? What practical steps can we take to strengthen our faith during seasons of unanswered prayers?
  8. What role does our understanding of eternity and the eternal perspective play in coping with unanswered prayers? How does the assurance of God’s ultimate faithfulness and the fulfillment of His promises impact our perspective on prayer?
  9. How can we support and encourage one another in times of unanswered prayers? What practical ways can the church community provide comfort, empathy, and hope to those who are wrestling with the challenges of unanswered prayers?
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