Is gentleness the same as weakness? Or is it something far more powerful—strength wrapped in humility and compassion?
In this message, Dave and Amy Mueller dive into the fruit of the Spirit called gentleness. Drawing from their own experiences, Amy shares how Dave’s gentleness has shaped their marriage, while they both explore how this often-overlooked quality transforms our relationships and the way we serve others. From marriage to ministry to everyday moments, gentleness reflects the heart of Christ in a world that often values force over love.
This message continues our Truth Files series, uncovering how the fruits of the Spirit help us live differently. Gentleness isn’t passive; it’s intentional. It’s choosing grace over aggression, compassion over criticism, and peace over power.
Watch the full message to discover how God’s Spirit can help you grow in gentleness and use it to impact the people around you.
If you missed the live service or want to reflect further, you can watch the full message above anytime after. We’ve also included discussion questions to dig deeper into the message and a handout with fill-ins to guide your reflection. You can find the handout by clicking the “Download” button above. Whether you watch this on your own or share it with your small group, we hope this message encourages you.
Discussion Questions
- How does the way Dave treats Amy with gentleness reflect God’s call for how we should treat others in our relationships?
- Why do you think gentleness is sometimes misunderstood as weakness? How would you define true gentleness?
- Think about a time when someone treated you with gentleness. How did it impact you, and what did it teach you about their character?
- How can gentleness strengthen a marriage, friendship, or any close relationship?
- What does it look like to serve others with gentleness, especially when they are in a vulnerable or challenging situation?
- In what ways can cultivating gentleness help us reflect the character of Christ in our daily lives?
- Why is gentleness necessary when serving the poor or those in need? How does it change the way we approach them?
- How can the Holy Spirit help us grow in gentleness? What steps can we take to partner with Him in this process?
- What would it look like to apply gentleness in a difficult situation you’re facing this week?
